Yep.
Pregnant again.
Now I am 33 weeks pregnant.
And my due is supposed to be in early August but with my 2 pregnancies, they were both born 2 weeks earlier.
I just got bad and good news.
Good news is I will get my cootu fund in July and August. Enough to hire a nanny/send the kids to nursery and buy a few baby's essential. Oh yeah I am expecting a girl this time so I'm overly excited!! 😄😄😄😄
Bad news is that my husband won't be around in July. I am afraid that when it's time to deliver, nobody won't be around to stay with the kids. My parents are already old and have physical disabilities so I can't ask them to come to KL from Johor just to take care of these 2 monkeys. They are handful!
I was already planning to send them to nursery & preschool due to unable to get a helper (the cost going thru agent is more than 10k and neither me nor my husband has that much what with 3 kids now).
I've asked around about Filipino helper but most of them demands for RM2.8k salary monthly. Meanwhile the nursery monthly costs me RM2.9k monthly. And they want me to make visa pass for them which I don't know how nor have the time to do it.
Now I'm looking for Indonesian helper which is to no avail. I am already stressed with the house chores that seems never-ending plus they just add more mess day by day. Not to mention the 2 cats I have that have litters to be cleaned and food & water to be provided.
Never had I imagine that my life would turn 360 degrees from being single to being married with having 3 kids at such a fast pace. Seriously. I should tie my tubes after this. But I feel like getting more in the future. Another 2 max. haha now I'm not making any sense. Please ignore that! 😆
Gosh. Having kids are so expensive nowadays. No wonder my parents were so cheapskate when they were raising us all. A lot of other things to consider.
Another bad news is that I can only send the kids for a full term instead of just few months. My cootu funds cannot be used sending them for the whole semester (till end of year). But there is nowhere that I can send my kids to to ease things up at home. Even so, there are nurseries that runs illegally (not licensed or registered with local authorities).
I am still thinking what and how to ask my husband (more to persuade) to send the kids for whole semester.. I mean, for toddlers aged 12 mos to 18 mos, the nursery care at my place costs RM1.6k monthly. That is 3-4x the local's rate.. But their place is equipped with cams and certified & experienced nurses, so it is understandable why their rate is high.
Ahhh I am so stressed. I'm nowhere able to send them anywhere, and expecting #3 would just make me more exhausted.. Aiyaya
Pregnant again.
Now I am 33 weeks pregnant.
And my due is supposed to be in early August but with my 2 pregnancies, they were both born 2 weeks earlier.
I just got bad and good news.
Good news is I will get my cootu fund in July and August. Enough to hire a nanny/send the kids to nursery and buy a few baby's essential. Oh yeah I am expecting a girl this time so I'm overly excited!! 😄😄😄😄
Bad news is that my husband won't be around in July. I am afraid that when it's time to deliver, nobody won't be around to stay with the kids. My parents are already old and have physical disabilities so I can't ask them to come to KL from Johor just to take care of these 2 monkeys. They are handful!
I was already planning to send them to nursery & preschool due to unable to get a helper (the cost going thru agent is more than 10k and neither me nor my husband has that much what with 3 kids now).
I've asked around about Filipino helper but most of them demands for RM2.8k salary monthly. Meanwhile the nursery monthly costs me RM2.9k monthly. And they want me to make visa pass for them which I don't know how nor have the time to do it.
Now I'm looking for Indonesian helper which is to no avail. I am already stressed with the house chores that seems never-ending plus they just add more mess day by day. Not to mention the 2 cats I have that have litters to be cleaned and food & water to be provided.
Never had I imagine that my life would turn 360 degrees from being single to being married with having 3 kids at such a fast pace. Seriously. I should tie my tubes after this. But I feel like getting more in the future. Another 2 max. haha now I'm not making any sense. Please ignore that! 😆
Gosh. Having kids are so expensive nowadays. No wonder my parents were so cheapskate when they were raising us all. A lot of other things to consider.
Another bad news is that I can only send the kids for a full term instead of just few months. My cootu funds cannot be used sending them for the whole semester (till end of year). But there is nowhere that I can send my kids to to ease things up at home. Even so, there are nurseries that runs illegally (not licensed or registered with local authorities).
I am still thinking what and how to ask my husband (more to persuade) to send the kids for whole semester.. I mean, for toddlers aged 12 mos to 18 mos, the nursery care at my place costs RM1.6k monthly. That is 3-4x the local's rate.. But their place is equipped with cams and certified & experienced nurses, so it is understandable why their rate is high.
Ahhh I am so stressed. I'm nowhere able to send them anywhere, and expecting #3 would just make me more exhausted.. Aiyaya
Baby girl is very shy and hesitated to show her face. Both her feet and hands up on the face. It was hard to get a look at her lovely face.. This is the best so far. Week 26.
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